The 20's Love. Why It Matters..?

As with coding and management and matters of finance and marketing, relationships have a learning curve. You learn the basics of “relationshiptiva”. How to deal with sexual etiquette, mundane everyday things, scheduling, and appropriate meetings with close friends, and some equitable plan for who’s supposed to pay for dinner or wash the dishes this time. These are basics. And if you’re learning them in your thirties, it’s going to be much harder.

Because in a few years, however young you think yourself (how old is thirty, really?), you will be approaching midlife and you won’t be as adaptable as you once were. There are reasons for this, many of which are biological. Your body won’t respond the same way. You’ll have knee problems that didn’t exist when you were running sophomore track. You can’t stay out till 4:00 a.m. anymore, because now the same alcohol intake has somehow resulted in a hangover that’s a multiple of what it once was — and you will never ever have appreciated a nice soft pillow more. And if you think you can fend these things off with diet and exercise, you should probably buy a good solid book on the aging process or find a professional athlete over the age of thirty to talk to. They will speak of massage therapists and bone density and necessary nutritional supplements. You can mitigate these things, but you can’t entirely avoid them.

Relationships are too important to learn how to face those issues at the last minute. You have to go through a few of them to know how to properly conduct one. You have to fail. You have to date a few terrible people. You have to be the asshole yourself sometimes. You have to learn how not to be the asshole. You have to spend tons of time together — so much time that sometimes you feel indistinguishable from each other and you find that both reassuring and disturbing. You have to have a vicious fight and know it’s not ending you and that you’re going to have to work to repair it and that the effort is worthwhile. These things take time.

Work at a relationship the way you work at your work. Spend the time. Make the effort.

Kya Yahi Pyaar Hai..? :)

Boy - Its feels great when I talk to you, and its great that we are already such good friends.
Girl -  Dammit you have no idea how madly I was waiting for you to call me!

And the story begins, or rather i should say, the eruption of a new volcano is on its way..? ;)

For me, looking at relationships around since years, of people very close to me to people i never thought can date someone, has come to a common end, the Eruption!

Love indeed is a temporary madness, madness to be together, madness of touch, and then the madness to depart! It Erupts and then it slowly abates.
It is funny to see that we so easily convince ourselves that yes we are in love. The root cause of the tensions ahead. And these roots play a very important part, part when your eruption abates.
When thing go calm in you, the decision that you have to make of knowing that can you live without that person or not. Once taken, Smiles can be back on both the faces.
But then, that's another calculation. (If Aishwarya Rai says a NO to Abhishek Bachchan, i can imagine him peeing in his underwear like a crying dick all his life).

Its tough to ask yourself where do you want to stop, or ever if you want to. What is that thing which makes you leave one and go to another..? As if you couldn't have been able to survive with that.

Well coming back to the Boy and the Girl at the top who just started with something...
Boy - I long to be with you baby,
I want you to be mine.
(Period)

Girl - Then why don't you take me in your arms dear,
Why don't you let our bodies love twine?
Your body your touch creeps me sweetly,
How can this stupid girl in me ever decline..?
(Period)

Kya Yahi Pyaar Hai..? :)
Go find your answers.

Fresh Air, Happiness, and Ofcourse, The Newness in Sadness!

More than a year that this heart wanted to write. Of Stories, characters, Heroes and Villains that passed by.
It feels great to be back here and writing.

I never knew the key to success but indeed the recent past that i had dealt with has taught me the key to failure, and which is to 'please everybody around'. It so happens, not just with me, but again i say, i am more concerned about myself.

The year and a half that rushed by, is and was my career pick up.
And yet again, when people are busy becoming good associates tagging their appraisals, i stick to my career objectives strongly.
Which was to believe in friendships and live by them. I have attained a few milestones, and lost a number too!

But so is life. I know if i want to earn money and leave people behind when i am 40, i can do that.
But if i leave my friends for something other, there is no coming back when i am 40 (or less or beyond)!

This is what i have always believed in, and will, come what may!

And yeah, it feels grreaatttt to be back.
I promise to post something 'logical' for the one who follows! :)

Chuck Out! Yeah. Like, Actually :)

Thanks again to some of my 'Friends'. I forgot they all are the 'same'.
Yeah, its easy to fall when a girl cries.
And if that friend is reading this out, yeah, its you man!

Sadly, the whole story falls in pieces one day.
'What goes around, comes around'.

That's what just happened..? Don't you realize this..?
In your face, 'What went around girl, just came back around - To You!'.

I have no fear, and no emotion.
For i have played my part 'WELL'.

Sad, some people can never stand their mistakes.

Go 'people' live your life in a peace, and yeah, let me do the same.
And to that friend, dude!...friends stick to each other but sadly you had your own definition!

Forget it, because i just Forgot you!

Bye Bye! :D

i am afraid, happy.

Life since this January has been the biggest change I have ever felt. I have turned into someone i never thought of.

 Happy..? I don't know. Sad..? Definitely NOT.

I had felt and lived that overrated 'LONELY' life for sometime now, never knew it was so awesome :)

There are some people i have missed badly all through this while. And i am only going to miss them more, as i know there is NO looking back.

I some how now have a despaired and this Slain look. No, I didn't invite dark circles, i didn't wanted to lose weight. But its all done.  :)

I have a body minus soul, which is cracking abruptly.

This is what makes me 'afraid'. 

Living life this way, was never so much fun before. 

My room has kilos of smoke by 4 in the morning, and believe me, by God, it looks amazing.

 There is now a scratch in the head, when i think of a better life (the one i am living now)

who's to plan, my plan of the plans..?
who's to decide that this life i lead is dead, or alive..?

I am so much happy, that i have no one to lead me. This is what it is to 'live your life, your way'.

'No one can define, your wrongs and your rights.

No one can define, your Wars, your fights!'

I guess one life is all i have, and i'll live it the way i believe in living it.

But to sacrifice and live without your own avowal, is a fate worst than dying.

And so i know a place i need to be, 

where it is not wrong, to live sinfully! 

I am finally moving out to Bombay, having keys to my own Flat.
(That is the place i need to be, where it is not wrong to live sinfully)

Pun intended indeed ;)
and this is what makes me happy. 

I will continue living this life (since january wali) :D

Kaan Ke Parde Mein Ched! :(

I am deaf with one ear, it hurts!
the proverb - 'Ek kaan se suno, aur doosre se nikalo' works no longer for me. :(
only if the operation (which may/may not happen)  goes well, i shall be hearing you properly.

what could have been right..?

'They Push me away from what could have been right..?'

Sadly, twp people could not 'Kill' it forever, and now that i did, it could have been right..? :)

A 'Love Triangle' may sound cool no doubts, but is a bore in real. Sorry, for i could not maintain the triangle.

Oh, and i guess i will take admission in a B.B.A section IN AMITY (you know its hard to leave my college), and never give time to my loved ones.

Crux - If two people can remain the same, so can I.

:)