lights, camera, and RAPE!

Two of the 11 men arrested for the alleged gang rape of a 24-year old MBA student near a mall in Noida. . . A 40-year old woman was allegedly gangraped by four men, including her husband's friend. . . . and the list goes on! "Their minds are rotten". In many cases the family and acquaintances are often rapists including fathers, uncles, and cousins. The sad thing about the evil practice in India is the lack of seriousness with which the crime is often treated. Statistics from 2000 showed that on an average, every hour has a different rape story in india. Delhi is not only the country capital, but the "rape capital" as well with over 330 cases in 4 months! dude..its time for me to wear my body condom. 


Capital isn't safe..but hey, i promise to be rubber sheltered! :->

19th January!

"Don't keep him waiting child! Why,his time is worth a thousand pounds a minute! And don't twiddle your fingers all the time..Better say nothing at all. 
Language is worth a thousand pounds a word!" The goat has a self-made brick wall around him. He's shy, but he is strong and tough. He's pleasant, but he's fiercely ambitious. Like the legendary, silent, earthy cowboy, the goat seems to prefer to be alone! They prefer to discuss serious subject, however, will always be there to listen to the problem. tend to be dominating and are not easy to win over. If you are going on a date with the goat (haha), make sure you are prompt! If you say you'll be there at a certain time, be there. They are intolerant to people who say something else and do something else. There are goats who are deliciously romantic- who understand the strange light of the moon and the glorious colors of the butterfly's wing. Don't defy the conventions if you want the respect of the goat. "PUBLIC SCENES AND RAW, NAKED, UNCONTROLLED PASSIONS EMBARRASS THEM!" ( but hey, i don't mind..hehe) Opportunity never has to knock twice at the goat's door. He'll hear the first knock. In fact, he's been leaning against the door, listening and waiting for it. phew! 

Fine, lets cut the crap now and put Linda Goodman on hold.. Happy birthday to this goat! happy birthday to me. :-)

Not too near, not too far.

There are couples who are so much into each other that there is no detail too intimate to discuss and no rule too sacrosanct to be broken. They present a united front to the world--sound like each other, repeat the same anecdotes and jokes and over time, may even start looking like each other! they know each other's deepest secrets from the past and there are no more mysteries to unravel.  

There are couples who agree to carve out enough space for each other and steer so far clear that overtime they become strangers and address the world from their own separate individual spaces, with no trace of togetherness. Over time they forget the art of communication and distance between them keeps growing.That is when they start saying, " It seems that i am living with a Stranger!". Despite talk of how important distance is for a healthy relationship, too much of it can stretch ties to breaking point, while an overdose of cloying togetherness can be nauseating! 
 
The long and short of it is that while it's important to keep a bit of yourself away just for you, it is equally important not to allow distances to grow exponentially. The most successful partnerships are those that maintain this "near-far" balance. Near enough to feel together and far enough retain the mystique!

Heart of Hinduism.

Human life alone is a life of responsibility and there is someone who governs this life She is a bitch of the finest order, answering to no one for her own actions.she knows how to love and she so very well knows how to fuck! she will make you answer for your actions, be they well-intentioned or carried out with negative intent. Glossary Terms: Punya – pious activities Papa – sinful activities. Karma exists and she is blind.

A Double Roti or a Diet Pepsi

Well a double roti is every human's desire. People who are single always wish that they were double(hope you get the meaning..haha) and that they had someone close to them to live their life with. And people who already are double wish they had that flexibility or the freedom that they lost willingly when they chose not to be single anymore. People who are confused, who are in no man's land, neither single nor double, are frustrated sitting on the fence. People in each category wished he/she were in the other category and find other people luckiest. What's your category..?

                       My opinion says, they are all either best or the worst depending on how you view it. Some students always loved school and some hated ( count me in the hate list.) Some love eating curd and some don't. Some are crazy for the chocolates and some aren't.Some like Hollywood and some are Bollywood by birth.

Likewise, some love to be independent and some don't and that does not make one better than the other. However true relationships are bonds that are difficult to break. So if you are unhappy about your relationship status, please donot compare.What situation seems the best for you may be the worst for others.

Stay put and wait for your fate to make its happy turn..! Good luck!

far away..

Things are not very good and nor are they desperately bad. Right now is not a good moment and in my perverse, narcissistic way I need to channel the force of that 'badness' into these words; as if to extinguish them through the light of awareness.

I am sobbing and God is far away. The depths of my loneliness seem unfathomable. 

 For all the care, love and concern of my dear friends...I still feel hollow and empty of the love I want. I don't want this! it is too much. Take it away.

Ever wondered why contentment seems to elude man? When we get that which we’ve always wanted, we are happy and seemingly content for a while. But soon, we will find ourselves wanting something else. Our needs, our wants, just keep coming. We are never content. I am sure you’ve heard that to live life to the fullest, we should concentrate only on the essentials. But how do we know which of the things we have, or want, are essential, and which aren’t, when we tend to measure life by the non-essentials that we have?